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 How to spice up your sex life in 30 sexy ways

When you are in a good relationship, there are many benefits to having more sex, as well as spicing up your sex life. How to spice up your sex life in 30 sexy ways

Couples who have more sex tend to be happier. They have more intimacy, lower divorce/breakup rates, and less stress.

So, let’s explore why sex is important in a relationship, some of the benefits you can get from it, and how often couples typically have sex before we talk about the many ways you can spice up your sex life!

Sex isn’t necessary for survival, but it’s a very important part of a fulfilling relationship. How important sex is varies from individual to individual and from couple to couple, however.

Some people feel that having a sexual connection with their partner is crucial to their happiness. While others might feel that other types of intimacy and connection are more important.

Here are some of the reasons that sex could be important to most couples.

1. It helps you feel closer

Having sex on a regular basis bonds the two people together. For example, oxytocin is released in both people’s brains, and that improves emotional intimacy. As a result, you will also feel more affectionate outside the bedroom too.

2. You feel more committed

In a monogamous relationship, sex also increases your level of commitment to each other. Expressing love through sex increases the likelihood that the two of you will stay together.

3. Sex is fun and pleasurable

Well, everyone knows this, right? Sex is great, and it’s a fun activity that you only share with your partner. So, it can be said that it is a “favorite pastime” that a lot of happy couples have.

4. It makes you feel confident and sexy

When you know your partner finds you attractive, then it helps with feeling confident and sexy. Without having sex, you might wonder if your partner still thinks you’re attractive or not. But with regular sex, you already know.

5. It increases your overall well-being

Having sex on a regular basis can also play a role in an individual’s overall well-being. When couples connect through sex, they feel more affectionate, and because of that, they’re more likely to have sex. So each one feeds the other.

As you can see, there are a lot of physical and emotional benefits to having a good, healthy sex life with your partner.

For some couples, it’s easy to do. But for others, it takes a bit more effort, so they feel the need to spice up their sex life.

How to spice up your sex life

If you’re in a relationship for a while, find new ways to spice up your sex life and keep it interesting.

Having sex with a new partner may feel great, but there’s nothing better than getting innovative in bed with someone you love and understand completely.

We live in a kinky world and what works sexually for one couple may not always work for another.

Find your own ways to excite each other in bed. However taboo or crazy it may seem, as long as both of you enjoy it and it doesn’t affect your relationship or anyone else negatively, you really have nothing to fear or lose.

If you want a few tips on how to spice up your sex life, here are 30 great pointers to get started in the right direction.

1. Have an affair with your partner

Plan a date with each other and pretend like both of you are having an affair. You’ll never realize how sexy it feels until you try it. Meet each other in a restaurant and seduce each other like two lusty lovers.

2. Roleplay in bed

Dressing up as someone else is an easy way to enact all your secret fantasies without having an affair. Try being a doctor and a patient, a professor and student, or even a soldier and a journo.

3. Think teen

You may have fallen in love as young teenagers. But that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t behave like one now and then.

Get creative and behave like eighteen-year-olds over a weekend. Dress like one, hang out in places you used to, and make out like teens!

4. Add more foreplay

One of the best ways to have great sex is by focusing on foreplay. Spend just 15 more minutes on making each other horny before having sex.

Both of you will end up having better sex. Caress and compliment each other’s bodies during those 15 minutes!

5. Make sex an impromptu, unpredictable act

As hard as it may seem, avoid planning ahead for sex or scheduling time for sex unless both of you are on very busy schedules.

6. Be shockingly innovative and flirty

As the relationship matures, you need to come up with new ways to get innovative. Indulge in something that gets your heart racing and your sex life will get super sexy.

7. Get sexy things into your bed

Bring new excitement into your bed.

Visit your local pharmacy or an adult store and bring in sex toys, lubes, pheromones, and anything else that works to reinvigorate your senses.

8. Feel sexy

Look good and start working out if you have to. Pamper yourselves with fragrant scrubs, sexy lingerie, and get yourself a new haircut. Feel sexy, and you’ll look sexy.

9. Bring your wildest fantasies alive

Just because you’re in a long-term relationship doesn’t mean you have to refrain from enacting your fantasies. Talk about it with your partner and indulge in them together.

10. Practice abstinence

If you know you can have sex whenever you want, it’ll lose its charm. Avoid having sex now and then, and save it for days when you go clubbing or indulge in something exciting. Plan this right and it can be a huge turn-on.

11. Surprise each other sexually

Surprise your partner into a sexual high now and then. Surprise him by receiving him naked when he comes home, or tell him that you’re not wearing your panties under the short skirt when both of you are out having dinner.

12. Think beyond the bed

If you want another really wild way to spice up your sex life, then think beyond the bed. There are many sexy places to get naughty besides in your bedroom.

Think kitchen, couches, bathroom, backyard, or a pool. Get innovative and the sexual rewards will be more pleasurable.

13. Add food and beverages

Bring food into bed, or cook together. Aphrodisiacal food can make lovemaking more romantic, and a few drinks can make both of you drunk and horny.

14. Sensual massages

Get naked and give each other a sensual massage without focusing on sex. Pleasure each other and let the fingers linger a while in the tingling spots. As long as the focus is on helping your partner orgasm, it’ll make both of you feel good.

15. Have tantric sex

Introduce tantric sex into the bedroom to have a passionate and intense sexual experience.

16. Think kinky

Nothing beats the excitement of wild and kinky sex when the relationship is starting to slow down in bed. Talk about your fantasies and bring your kinky fetishes and lusty desires to life.

17. Take off on a sexy vacation now and then

Pick a vacation spot that both of you would like, be it a crowded sex resort or a beautiful, idyllic paradise island. And spend all vacation thinking of nothing but sexy thoughts.

18. Sexy texts and calls

Don’t wait for your partner to be around to seduce them. Send a few sexy photos in the middle of the day and tease your partner into wanting more when both of you get together at night.

19. Watch porn

Sometimes, watching porn can help both of you get into the mood and have a better time making love while watching another couple making out on the screen.

20. Fool around

Don’t wait for some alone time to make out with each other. Be affectionate with each other all the time, and take affection to a whole new level now and then.

Kiss your partner when they’re on the phone with someone else, or take their pants off and give them oral in the middle of a phone call.

21. Body play

Play with each other’s bodies instead of just having sex. Paint on your partner’s body with glow-in-the-dark paints or edible colors.

22. Make a home video

Make a video together while having sex. Delete it after the act if having a sex tape freaks you out, or make sure you store it in a safe place.

Watching yourselves having sex in the video and having sex at the same time can be a huge rush for anyone.

23. Wear sexy outfits

Wear revealing clothes, and every now and then, reveal something and make it seem like an accident. This is another great way to spice up your sex life.

24. Use mirrors

Use full-length mirrors alongside your bed to heighten your sexual experience. You can have sex really close to the mirror if you want to recreate a foursome sexual fantasy. Watch yourself or imagine another couple.

25. Make some noise

Moaning in bed or whispering sexy nothings is a huge turn-on that can’t be explained. Talk to each other in bed and you’ll arouse your partner in no time.

26. Sexual setting

Design your bedroom to revolve around sex. Use fragrances and candles, and the perfect cushions to make lovemaking feel like a sexy luxury.

27. Be truthful

You can’t experience the best sex of your lives or even stay loyal to each other unless both of you exchange ideas and sexual thoughts with each other, be it about a sexual crush or a sexual memory. Don’t be awkward mentally, and your sexual romance will bloom.

28. Read an erotic story together

The mind is the biggest sexual organ we have. Create fantasies and imagine them together. It’ll be a bigger turn-on than you think.

29. Create sexual memories

Try something new all the time. Have sex in a car or on a beach while on a vacation, skinny dip, or even with another couple in bed. As long as you create new and exciting memories all the time, sex can never ever get boring.

30. Believe in the relationship

Nothing can tarnish your relationship as long as there’s love and trust in the air. You may indulge in many kinky ideas or even go as far as swinging.

But as long as there’s love and trust, both of you can always find a way to rekindle the excitement of sex without losing each other. If you’re only looking for ways to have better sex with your partner and not a way to cheat on your partner, then your relationship will definitely stand the test of time.

Spicing up your sex life and keeping things exciting

Relationships aren’t always easy, especially in this day and age when everyone is so busy with their life. So, maintaining a good, healthy sex life with your partner does take some effort.

However, if you do it right, it should feel effortless.

You should enjoy the bliss of romance and work on keeping the passion boiling with new and sexy things to try together. As we said earlier, this will help the two of you stay bonded, and then you have a much better chance of having your relationship last forever.

 How to spice up your sex life in 30 sexy ways
 How to spice up your sex life in 30 sexy ways

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